Fashion Friday!

Out on The Town!

My husband and I have always enjoyed our date nights. Since our four girls were little we’ve found that extra time to spend alone and just enjoy each other’s company.  Sometimes it’s a dinner and a movie and other times it might be going out for ice cream and taking a long ride.  It’s not always easy to find that extra time, but it is so worth it, especially when you have little ones.




You have to find a date on the calendar that you think might work, look for a baby sitter, negotiate the rate and DECIDE WHAT TO WEAR.  Yes, I put those words in all caps, because sometimes as women we forget when we go on a date with our husbands or boyfriends that we can dress up a little.  We don’t have to go overboard, but dressing to impress your loved one and to boost your self esteem is a great idea.


You can leave the large baby bags at home, you don’t have to carry a handbag with everyone else’s stuff in it, whether large or small, and you don’t have to wear your everyday lounge around the house clothing. If you are a stay at home Mom, you may not dress up everyday, so this gives  you a great opportunity to show off your true style.


Why not wear your favorite jeans and t-shirt, but dress it up a little with some sexy heels and a cute jacket or scarf. You can also wear your go-to Summer dress with sandals or your go-to Winter dress with boots and a trendy handbag.


Don’t forget about the accessories.  They are just as important as the outfit.  If you don’t wear earrings often during the week, change it up for your date night and add a simple pair of studs or hoops.  If you’re like me and love to wear jewelry on a regular basis, just change it up a bit or wear less to show a simpler look.


Of course, your attire will depend on where you’re going on your date night, but just remember to look your best. Make this a night or day to feel special.  Not that you don’t feel special already, but think of it as a time to impress your significant other and increase your self-esteem.



If you’re going out for pizza, you don’t have to wear your little black dress with pearls and heels. You may get a few stares at the restaurant.  Dress for the occasion.  Flats can be just as cute as heels.  There are lots of different styles of flats that are trendy today.  Some with embellishments and some not.


Tennis shoes can also be worn on your date night as long as they are not the ones you wear to work in your garden.  They should be clean and appropriate for your outfit and appropriate for your destination.


Maxi dresses are great for date nights as well, as they are very comfortable and forgiving depending on the style.  Remember to dress for your body type and stick to your style.  Don’t try to be someone else.  Dress to be the best “you” that you can be.


Enjoy your date night!

Fashion Friday!

Fall’s Denim Trends

Jeans are one of those wardrobe staples that we love to hate.  We want to wear them, because they can be comfortable and casual, but they can also be awkward and uncomfortable if you wear the wrong style. Remember when the low rise jeans were in style?  They hit right below the belly button.  That style was not for everyone.  I tried to wear them but when I did, I kept trying to pull them up, because they seemed too low.

Not only are there different jean rises, but there are different leg styles which include straight leg, boot cut, skinny, relaxed, flare and boyfriend.  You will also have to decide if you want stretch, no stretch, dark wash, light wash, holes, no holes, embellished, no hems, etc.  This can be overwhelming when looking for the right style of jean for you.

When shopping for jeans you must try on pair after pair, before you find the right cut and style for you. Below are some style trends for this fall.











Fashion Friday!

This is a post from two years ago, but it is still relevant today.

Packing Made Easy!

We went on a trip to LA for 4 days and had a great time, but we were limited on the amount of items we could bring, because of the baggage fees that the airlines charge.  There were 7 of us, so imagine 7 checked bags at $35 each.  That was $245 we were not willing to spend both ways.  If we brought our bags on the plane as carryons we would only be charged $25 each for a total of $175 both ways.   Still we did not think it was worth it. The airline would allow a free carryon but it would have to fit within their specific measurements.  So we gathered all of the bags we had around the house measured them all, made sure we all had one and told ourselves whatever fits in this bag is what we can take on the trip with us.   We have 4 daughters so you can imagine the looks on their faces.  They were not excited.  Well they felt better when we told them that they could also have a large handbag, so whatever didn’t fit in their carryon they could put in their handbags/backpacks.  Needless to say we all implemented the steps I’ve outline for you below and no one complained about not having enough clothing to wear and even had room to shop and bring back a few items.  Talk about team work and saving money.


Here are my tips:

Find out what the weather will be like so that you know what type of clothing to bring.

Make a list of items you think you will need.  You can’t go wrong with a list, especially if you have limited amounts of items you can bring. You can utilize already made lists like the one below or you can make your own list.


No matter what type of clothing you’re bringing, you will want to first decide on a base color or two, like black and white or red and brown. Once you make this decision, you can choose the items that would coordinate with those colors best and allow you to mix and match outfits better.  The more you can mix and match the less you can bring.  Depending on what you are doing each day you may be able to wear a pair of pants during the day and change into a dressier shirt for dinner that goes with the same pants.  Or if you’re wearing a dress, during the day, you can change into a pair of dressier shoes and update your jewelry for dinner.  Be sure to bring layering items like a cardigan or light jacket.  This will allow you to get away with re-wearing some items and they will also help with the changing weather.


If you’re like me, shoes are usually the biggest problem when it comes to packing. I like to bring several pair (meaning 4 or 5 pair) so that I can have options, but with limited space I have to narrow it down.  So ladies, decide on which shoes will work best with most of the outfits and bring 2 or 3 pair if they all fit in your bag, and I make sure mine do.   Also think of comfort.  I know, comfort and Style don’t always go together, but I say why not.  You don’t have to be in pain to look good, so make sure those shoes look and feel good.

Shoes overflow from suitcase
My kind of shoe suitcase


Check items off your list as you collect them.  Try to collect your items a day or two ahead of time so you’re not struggling to find items at the last minute.  That’s no fun.  Once you’ve collected most of your items, it’s time to start organizing them.  Put your shoes and any heavy items at the bottom of your bag.  If you have space in your shoes use it to store small items like socks, underwear, costume jewelry (rolled in something soft or secure in a Ziploc sandwich bag).


The best way to pack your clothing to gain the most space is to roll them.  Roll the soft items first and fold the heavy items and lay them on top.


Because you will probably be bringing back a suitcase full of dirty clothes on the plane another good idea is to bring a few sheets of fabric softener in a sandwich bag and take one out and lay it in your bag on the way home so that the bag smells fresh.


Remember that for your return you will need to make you carryon look as neat as it was before, even though you will have dirty clothes this time around.  Continue to roll them the best you can and add the fabric softener sheets as needed.

We implemented these tips and our packing was a success.  We were able to utilize space we usually wouldn’t have and we were able to save money at the same time.  We enjoyed our trip and had extra money to spend.  I call that an all around successful trip.